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I really liked this one, H/T mindyourbusiness:

The Stoic Challenge

Disclaimer: I’m not your Supervisor. These are my opinions after reading through these books a few times.

April 2

“Drama, combat, terror, numbness, and subservience—every day these things wipe out your sacred principles, whenever your mind entertains them uncritically or lets them slip in.”
—MARCUS AURELIUS, MEDITATIONS, 10.9

I try to stay focused. Everyday in the office I am subjected to the <em>Steve Harvey Morning Show</em>. It has something called a Strawberry Letter, someone writes to the show about a situation they’re in. Most of these are self inflicted and my co-workers love to comment and discuss these things. Sometimes I get drug in, and I always feel dumber as a result. It is fun to make fun of the idiocy on display, but it’s not good for my character.

 

April 3rd

“Circumstances are what deceive us—you must be discerning in them. We embrace evil before good. We desire the opposite of what we once desired. Our prayers are at war with our prayers, our plans with our plans.”
—SENECA, MORAL LETTERS, 45.6

This is another variation on the ‘I have 2 wolves fighting inside of me” story. I want to get in shape after my surgery, but keep having setbacks. My foot’s bruise is fading and I should start running next week. I am pissed that I can’t run, yet I didn’t even go walking. I claim to want to get in shape, why do I do nothing? I need to bring my actions in line with my desires. As I am typing this, I ate some Snyder Pretzel sticks and drank a Cherry Coke. I am not helping myself right now.

 

April 4th

“Make sure you’re not made ‘Emperor,’ avoid that imperial stain. It can happen to you, so keep yourself simple, good, pure, saintly, plain, a friend of justice, god-fearing, gracious, affectionate, and
strong for your proper work. Fight to remain the person that philosophy wished to make you. Revere the gods, and look after each other. Life is short—the fruit of this life is a good character and acts for the common good.”
—MARCUS AURELIUS, MEDITATIONS, 6.30

I am not an important person, Marcus Aurelius was. We both try to follow our philosophies and be good people. I am succeeding in this, but I cannot let my guard down and assume that because I have a reputation for honesty, that I can lie when it suits me. I will fight to be the man my wife believes I am and that will keep me doing the things I should do.

 

April 5th

“First off, don’t let the force of the impression carry you away. Say to it, ‘hold up a bit and let me see who you are and where you are from—let me put you to the test’ . . .”
—EPICTETUS, DISCOURSES, 2.18.24

I am bad at this, i have a bad habit of making snap judgments when I meet people. Sometimes they are correct, but not always.

 

April 6

“When you first rise in the morning tell yourself: I will encounter busybodies, ingrates, egomaniacs, liars, the jealous and cranks. They are all stricken with these afflictions because they don’t know the difference between good and evil. Because I have understood the beauty of good and the ugliness of evil, I know that these wrong-doers are still akin to me . . . and that none can do me harm, or implicate me in ugliness—nor can I be angry at my relatives or hate them. For we are made for cooperation.”
—MARCUS AURELIUS, MEDITATIONS, 2.1

I really struggle with this one. My mother is a proud democrat, and I used to think she was a thinking person. I need to remember she started as housekeeping for a hotel and eventually became the manager. She also started as a cashier at a fried chicken/beer store and once again ended up running the place. I think I could deal with it better if I knew she lacked the intelligence. But it is my choice to get angry when she spouts her approval for the current thing, so I need to work on not choosing that. Same goes for other people I have to deal with. I am working on controlling my “angry face”.

 

April 7

“There are two things that must be rooted out in human beings—arrogant opinion and mistrust. Arrogant opinion expects that there is nothing further needed, and mistrust assumes that under the torrent of circumstance there can be no happiness.”
—EPICTETUS, DISCOURSES, 3.14.8

I heard a John McAfee interview where he said “What makes you so sure that out of all the people in the world, your opinion is the correct one?”(not an exact quote) I think I do pretty well at this, I try to leave the possibility I could be wrong. I still have a bias towards freedom and a healthy cynicism about our ruling class. I am very arrogant in my opinions about them, and definitely mistrust them. My mother has some of the most arrogant opinions of anyone I deal with, makes following the advice from April 6th difficult, and she would say the same about me, that’s why anger on my end is unhelpful.

 

April 8

“When it comes to money, where we feel our clear interest, we have an entire art where the tester uses many means to discover the worth . . . just as we give great attention to judging things that might steer us badly. But when it comes to our own ruling principle, we yawn and doze off, accepting any appearance that flashes by without counting the cost.”
—EPICTETUS, DISCOURSES, 1.20.8; 11

I think of this as another warning that just because you believe it, doesn’t make it correct. My opinion is not necessarily correct. I try to remember this and scrutinize the things I believe and be able to reason my way into them.

 

Today I bring you Metal Church, most of their stuff is average, but the good ones are really good:

Also, Mike Howe had a unique voice – Badlands

He left for 14 years and came back sounding the same:

Needle and the Suture

Found out last week he killed himself in July. Damn shame.

Sounded good as ever, not fancy, just solid Metal:

Damned If You Do

By the Numbers